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𝒎𝒐𝒗𝒊𝒆 𝒓𝒆𝒄𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒅𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏𝒔

 




1.The perks of being a wallflower

2.Black swan

3.Lolita

4.Gone girl

5.I,Tonya

6.Virgin suicides

7.Emma

8.Romeo & Juliet

9.Marie Antoinette

10.Little Women

11.The Lovely bones

12.Carrie

13.Phantom of the opera

14.The princess diaries

15.Gilmore girls

16.The great gatsby

17.Mr and Mrs.Smith

18.10 things i hate about you 

19.Oceans eight

20.Uptown girls

21.Get out 

22.Crazy rich asians

23.Clueless

24.Legally Blonde

25.Matilda

26.Look away

27.Five feet apart

28.Pride and predjuice

29.Charlie& The choclate factory






𝐪𝐮𝐨𝐭𝐞𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐡𝐢𝐭 𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐝

 


"i'm still young and sometimes i feel i have reached the autumn of my life "

"i would just like a little credit for the fact i'm killing myself trying"

"you don't always have to be who they want you to be, you know?"

"memory is a wonderful thing if you don't have to deal with the past"

"you could be brilliant, but you're a coward "

"i was a daisy fresh girl and look what you did to me "

"there's so many things i want to do but i end up not doing much 

"when someone's always around me, im suffocating"

"i feel like im designed to be slightly dissatisfied with everything "

"actually,i felt like you knew me "

"people aren't perfect they make mistakes"

"you think because your eyes are closed no one can see you?"




𝙄𝙜 𝙘𝙖𝙥𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣𝙨


 this & that

'month' favs

photo buffet

classy

espresso yourself

50 shades of summer

we cute o wateva 

out n abt

wknd

TW:my existence

xoxo

his prettiest problem

no promises

too glam to give a damn 

talk 2 me nice

more issues than @vogue

"she's busy"

you do u ,i'll do better <3

reality called 

doin time'

he said 2 be cool but im alr coolest

18:35

minimalistic

kisses

breathin'

no limits

unfazed

twin flame

your loss

bby girl 4 eva 


𝘽𝙚𝙖𝙪𝙩𝙮 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙗𝙧𝙖𝙞𝙣𝙨


"It's not that you're lazy or don't know how to do it. You don't know how to organize your time either. Stop telling yourself you don't have discipline or that's for other people take your action now!"

Start by organizing your current life.
What are my goals? What would be my ideal routine? Where can I start? What habits are stealing my time? Am I satisfied with my current life? What should I improve? What can I do to improve?
After answering these questions  and having a clearer view 
of what you would want for yourself .
Try to make short term goals for yourself to achieve in a short period of time, Stay consistent with the goals and do try unexpected things that you have never done before.
Find your motivation.
What are the long term and short term benefits you will get when you start this routine? How will you feel when you will receive what you want, no matter how small. What improvements will be there in your life during and after this. Little by Little.

The 7 pillars of mindfulness:
(Practice these to be in a lighter and higher,untouchable state of mind)
Non-judging
Patience 
Beginner's Mind
Trust
Non-Striving
Acceptance 
Letting Go

Studying Tips :
Study Ratios 
Work for 20 mins : 5 mins break time 
               30 mins : 8  mins 
               45 mins:12 mins
               1 hour: 20 mins 
              1hr 30 mins:45 mins

Study Techniques :Watch youtube videos on the topic
Write it down and say it out loud 
Pretend you're teaching
Create a mindmap
Create a pre-test
Flashcards

Study Tips:Watch study with me videos on youtube
Create a study plan
Participate in class 
Practice online 
Invest in cute study supplies
Practice the ability to recall information
Put your phone on do not disturb 
Don't skip class
Listen to brown noise
Use the podomoro technique 
Ask questions

"Studying doesn't suck nearly as much as failing"

Book Recommendation's: How to win friends and influence people
The 5 AM Club
The 80/20 Principle
Think and grow rich 
The power of habit
Who moved my cheese?
Rich dad and Poor dad



 


𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙫𝙞𝙧𝙜𝙞𝙣 𝙨𝙪𝙞𝙘𝙞𝙙𝙚𝙨( 1999)


 The Virgin Suicides is a 1999 American psychological romantic drama film written and directed by Sofia Coppola adapted from the book The Virgin Suicides written by Jeffrey Eugenides.

 Starring Kirsten Dunst as Lux Lisbon 

Josh Hartnett as Trip Fontaine 

Hanna R.Hall as Cecillia Lisbon

A.J Cook as Mary Lisbon

Leslie Hayman as Therese Lisbon 

Kathleen Turner as Mrs.Lisbon

Chelsea Swain as Bonnie Lisbon

As the title suggests this is about the suicides of  five sisters known throughout the book as the Lisbon girls ,The book takes you on a journey as to how and why these girls die .

The narration of this book is from a point of view of unnamed teenage boys who live in the same neighborhood as the Lisbon girls and it follows them retracing the steps  and the lives of the girls to try and work out why this happened?,finding evidence from people who knew them but not once do we hear from the actual girls perspective.

Youngest Cecillia Lisbon commits suicide first her first effort happens when she cuts her wrists open in a bath ,Paul Baldino the son of a rich gangster finds her by entering the Lisbon home via the neighborhood storm drains then Paul sneaks inside the home to upstage Peter Sisson the only boy to ever be invited ,When Peter helps Mr Lisbon with a scale model of his cosmos in his classroom he gets invited to dinner then Peter snoops around the sister's bathroom and finds a used tampax he proudly informs the other boys and when Paul hears this he boasts that he will go into the Lisbon home and observe the girls bathing but when he sneaks into the home and sneaks into the bathroom he discovers Cecillia in bloody bathwater holding a laminated card with a Virgin Mary image .

He phones the police horrified .Cecillia survives this ordeal a psychiatrist tells her parents that she needs to spend more time with people so The Lisbons host a party the neighborhood boys are excited to get invited ,They enter the Lisbon home  and are led to the basement where the sisters are waiting  ,After an uneasy start everyone starts talking except Cecillia who sits silently with a bandaged wrist and she eventually begs her Father to go upstairs  and he reluctantly agrees ,When she climbs the stairs everyone is quiet a fence post impaling Cecillia's corpse breaks the quiet .

Mr Lisbon rushes outside to aid Cecillia but it's evident she didn't survive ,Cecillia dies leaving the neighborhood clueless and The Lisbons seem odd and aloof when the adults offer their sympathy ,Moody the village Priest can't get Mr Lisbon to speak about what happened ,He observes the sad condition of the home as he moves through the hallways ,When Father Moody finds the Lisbon sisters gathered in a bedroom he is struck by their distress and filth ,In hindsight he is certain that they didn't have any intentions to commit suicide after seeing their anguish .

The Lisbon sisters don't see the boys all summer ,Lux Lisbon starts to sneak around with some guys because her parents don't allow her to date so she must be cautious ,Trip Fontaine who falls for Lux is barely noticed by her untill he follows her to an assembly sits next to her and whispers that he is going to ask Lux's dad that if he can take her out he even insists on coming over to watch tv with the family even though she says there's no possibility .Trip spends the whole evening watching TV with the Lisbon family but Mr and Mrs Lisbom sit on the couch between Trip and Lux .

Mr Lisbon finally tell him it's time to go and Lux walks him to the door while looking at him with a sorry face because she knows her parents will never let her go out with him .He goes to his car in a bad mood and sits there for a moment but then out of nowhere it seems like a deity is hovering over him and sucking his face .Lux is straddling him he realizes she is kissing him so intensely that he can hardly hold his composure grasping for her in a frantic overwhelmed manner till she quickly disappears .

In the following weeks the boys learned that Lux has been grounded Mr and Mrs  Lisbon get stricter and their  home becomes worse ,Trip goes to Mr Lisbon's class and declares his desire to take Lux to the homecoming dance and Mr Lisbon says that it's up to his wife and that making an exception for lux wouldn't be fair to his other kids .Trip promises to gather a gang of men to take all the Lisbon girls ,Trip visits the Lisbon house the evening of the homecoming dance along with three other boys  the sisters are really happy and excited and they seem to enjoy the night especially Lux and Bonnie who sneak under the bleachers with Trip and Joe Hill Conley to drink peach schnapps and kiss while the sweet taste is still on their lips but by night's end Trip and Lux disappear so the others have to leave without them .

The boys discover that Trip and Lux had intercourse on the football field ,Trip had feelings for Lux but after they had intimacy he wanted to be alone so he abandoned her on the field. After the homecoming dance Mr and Mrs Lisbon become increasingly more stricter and scarcely allowing their daughters to leave the house even removing them from school. At this point Mr Lisbon resigns as a teacher but most of the people realized he was forced to quit since none of the local parents believed he could manage his own family

Lux begins having intercourse with different guys on the roof of the Lisbon home which is even more scandalous. The boys spy on  Lux's  activities from across the street and see that she's becoming slim . Lux's fake stomach discomfort to obtain a covert pregnancy test at the hospital persuading the doctor not to  notify her parents. She finds out that she is not pregnant but has HPV  as winter progresses the Lisbon residence deteriorates . 

By spring the boys don't think of the sisters that much after all its baseball season and they haven't seen the girls in a long time except for brief glimpses. At one point the parks department comes to the Lisbon's front yard  to cut down a diseased tree because most of the town's elm trees are sick with a fungus and needed to be taken down. Nevertheless the Lisbon sisters prevent them from felling it since it was Cecillia's favorite tree .In late spring the boys believe the sisters are conversing cryptically with them.They are right the sister's are talking to them as shown by the notes they leave in their mailboxes .One of the notes say remember us ,In the end the boys call the girls .Mr Lisbon answers first but they remain on the line until they can hear the girls .

Once Mr Lisbon hangs up they hear a weak dejected sister say hello and hang up.The boys continue to get calls but they opt to hold the phone to a stereo instead of speaking .For a time they alternate between the guys playing blatantly armorous tunes and the Lisbon sisters responding with a song of their own  choice in the end the sisters play bred naked with u which sends the boys into a frenzy .After this interaction the boys wait for the signal the next night .The boys are thrilled believing the sisters wanted to be spared from their miserable existence.

After sipping bear in their common tree house and waiting for the Lisbon sisters to wave through a window the boys sneak into the Lisbon home via the back door where Lux awaits them .With their imaginations running wild they agree to go to Florida with her while lux insists they wait for her sisters to pack .She unbuckles Chase Buell's belt and as she hears a bang upstairs says they'll have to wait .They wait and find Cecillia's party decorations in the basement suddenly to their horror they discover Bonnie has hung herself and they escape the basement.The boys later piece it all together Lux js unbuckled Chase Buell's belt to buy time untill her sister kicked over the trunk she was standing on .Then she walked over to her parents garage and started the automobile asphyxiating herself in it.

Mary stuck her head in the oven ,Therese was most likely already dead after swallowing a slew of  medicines.Mary survives her suicide attempt but only briefly the next summer the boys come home from a party after drinking  and making out with girls and discover paramedics lifting Mary's dead corpse onto a stretcher like Therese she died by swallowing pills .After the Lisbon suicides the parks department take down Cecillia's  elm tree .Everyone thinks the nation is in decline and the neighborhood is harsh and odd .The  Lisbon sisters are suspected foreseeing this downfall in choosing to die .The boys will never know why the sisters died but they will always think about them .